Free Parent's Guide

Is Your Daughter the One They Skip, or the One They Pick?

Freedom 15: the 15 conversations to have with her before she's on her own.

Make her the one they skip. It's free.

You shouldn't have to think like this. But you do. And that instinct is exactly right.

You've protected her for her whole life. Soon she'll have to protect herself. Nobody ever showed most of us how to get her ready for that. That isn't your failure.

What's inside the free guide

The 2 Rules That Make Everything Else Work — give her two simple principles to fall back on when you can't be there to help her make the decision.
15 Personal-Safety Conversations — cover the situations and decisions that matter as she gains more independence.
Simple Prompts and Questions — help you talk about safety without turning it into a lecture—or another round of “just be careful.”
The Freedom 15 Conversation Checklist — gives you a simple way to see what you've covered, what's still waiting, and where another conversation might help.
5 Things to Do Tonight — turn what you talk about into practical actions you can take together right away.

You don't have to be paranoid.

You don't have to be perfect.

You just have to be responsible.

I'm a husband and father first. I've spent more than three decades across Army Special Forces, law enforcement and SWAT, and counter-terrorism work for a U.S. government agency, and I've trained thousands of women in personal protection through my company, 88 Tactical. This is what I'd want every parent to have. Trevor Thrasher